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Below is a letter written for his funding in
community living facilities which will give a quick overview.
Thirty five years ago, when Justin was born, shortly after PL.93-122 was
written and shortly before PL 94-142 was implemented.
Rights for disabled were passed.
I
struggled, lobbied and helped develop early education and respite care
services that he and I needed. I
taught other parents their rights and responsibilities.
I advocated for his public
school needs and funding.
Including, making sure public school teachers had enough help for
inclusion. There was no
“family leave” program for parents.
During the time I was working on and coping with early education and
public school education, I ran into a lot of parents of older disabled
children, (over 21) and their challenge to find safe and appropriate,
“least restrictive” group homes or other facilities for adults with
disabilities. In fact, they
were somewhat resentful of all that was being done for younger children
and very little for their adult children.
I wasn’t there yet, so paid little attention.
I had this “cute”, “special needs” young son.
Everyone wanted to do what was best for him and he got great
services for the most part.
Fifteen years ago I started to understand the concerns of parents of
adult children when Justin entered adult living programs.
Justin was in good health and appropriate weight when he entered the
program. He did not have a
behavior diagnosis then as it was not a major problem.
Justin was then placed with more and more aggressive and severely
behaviorally disordered and his behaviors increased with that placement.
I agreed to those placements as a result of being told that was his only
choice or I could find another provider.
It was a threat because they know how much work and how hard it
is to find and change providers. He
became more and more disruptive and demanding and acted out through
extreme behaviors. He was
getting more and more frustrated and angry.
He directed his anger toward things and not people for a long
time and then eventually developed more behaviors directed at people.
He also became more and more stressed with living with severely involved
residents who would come into his room and hit him and threaten him.
He learned how to survive in these scary and unsafe living
conditions. I
became labeled as a “problem parent” pointing out these problems with
staffing, inaccessible facilities, his health and safety.
He also gained a great amount of weight, was given additional
diagnosis and prescribed behavior control medications and mood disorder
medications he had never been diagnosed before entering group homes.
With this lack of appropriate staffing, he became more sedentary and
eventually was almost completely limited to a wheelchair.
It was easier to restrict his movement than provide safe
conditions with staff that could manage his size and weight.
He began falling more and of course, he became more and more
obese and was then prescribed full time oxygen to cope with the
increasing health issues. Side
effects of medications were also causing more problems
such as dizziness and increased
instability.
I watched him regress into a person I had never expected or seen.
I was heartbroken and continued to work to get him a safe place.
He was then placed with MRSI when they moved to
In 2007, I chose to place him in a “host home” environment with only 2
clients in the house.
He did well for a while, but then again, staffing was an issue and often
Justin was in the community with only one staff and there would be an
incident and Justin would be left alone with the general public while
staff got a car or addressed another issue.
Not feeling safe, Justin would encourage by-standers to get him
help, through asking them to call 911 for an ambulance or whatever he
thought would help. These
incidents happened frequently with
The
host home situation he is now in, has male staff able to address his
mobility issues and safety.
He is not in a wheelchair all day at day hab or at home.
He exercises daily.
They have gotten him walking again, he has lost 32 pounds and is not on
full time oxygen and has not had a reportable behavior in over 8 months.
He is still somewhat limited in his ability to be in the
community when he has only one staff to help with his safety and
logistics. He does not have
roommates that have behaviors that are difficult to cope with and
encourage disruptive behaviors.
And for the first time in 15 years he has an accessible bathtub
that is appropriate for him.
Justin is much happier and finally feels safe in his own home.
Isn’t that the goal of all of us, feeling safe in our own home?
It was living in an abusive home with no way out for many years.
MRSI provided counseling to cope with those fears created by his
living conditions.
Justin
deserves more independent living where he can go where he wants and do
what he wants and not be dependent on adequate staff and the behaviors
of other residents. We have
the proof; look at his previous placements and his placement now and the
drastic changes in his abilities and disabilities.
Now it is time to look at how to keep this “least restrictive”
environment and to never let what has happened to him in the “group
home” situation, ever happen again.
You need only look at the records and the progression of the problems in
his previous placements and where we are today.
He is going back to being the person he was before group home
abuse and placement. He has lost weight and has had no destructive
behaviors since his placement in a host home.
It is time to assure the disabled that they will be placed in
appropriate living conditions and not just warehoused at the convenience
of the agencies involved.
That was not the goal of deinstitutionalization.
Justin should never been put in many of the positions he was,
that escalated his disabilities and medial diagnosis.
With escalating autism diagnosis, it is time to do the right thing now
and pay staff appropriately to provide non-abusive services in least
restrictive environments.
Mini-institutions are not least restrictive, just smaller institutions.
We all have the equal right to the “pursuit of happiness”.
Justin has goals, plans and dreams for his life.
It is in his current environment that these are achieved.
Submitted by: ppenny@centurytel.net |
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